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I know you will love this post, since I will cover how to attract a man emotionally.

Many women fail to understand why a man all of a sudden becomes distant and starts to pull away from you. It is something I covered on this blog previously. I share the link to that post in the full version of this post.

One of the best ways to stop him from become emotionally distant is by attracting a man emotionally.

Sadly, most women don’t know how to do it.

if you don’t know how to do it properly, he will become emotionally distant.

Let me share my story with you, which I already know you will appreciate.

Also, if you know of another woman who struggles with an emotionally distant man, please share this post with her.

In the spirit of true sisterhood, we need to share the good, and truthful information to other women too.

Attract a Man By Loving Him The Way He Wants

As women we know a lot about love. Most importantly we know how we want to experience love, and be loved.

It is only natural to think that a man will be loved the same way.

However, it is not.

It became painstakingly precise if you watched the latest season of TLC’s TV-show 90 Days Fiancé: Before the 90 Days.

I am thinking about the episode where the British man Tom, broke up with his American fiancé, Darcy.

He only did it, after she confronted him with the fact that she had seen him with his arms wrapped around another woman on Instagram.

Unwillingly, he had to confess it to her. It was hard to hear, even for me who is a fan of this series.

It was with words that would make any woman cry, but at the same time shows how different men and women treat emotions.

If you haven’t seen it, I recommend you to do it ASAP. I am not sure that the words I will write were the exact words. However, they make it evident to you what a jerk (pardon my French, here) he is.

I Have Finally Found a Woman Who Love Me The Way I Want to Be Loved

He said something like: I have finally found a woman who loves me the way I want to be loved.

When he said it. He said it in an ice-cold, logical way, that are typical male, I would say, as a British woman myself.

Let me tell you that, I was crying my heart out for her, when that happened.

It wasn’t the first time it happened to her, that a foreign man broke up with her.

However, it was the first time a man said it straight to her face in front of the TV-camera.

I recognised that what she faced there and then, was something that has happened to me many times and it leaves you as an emotional wreck.

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So, what can you do to attract a man emotionally?

As I said, and I shared in this blog post, there are a few things you can do to change your relationship with men.

If you want to know how to attract a man, you need to understand how a man wants to be loved. That is the key to make a man commit to you. Physically, mentally, and emotionally. It is a completely different story compared to how you want to be loved as a woman.

I have lost count of how many times I tried to make a man commit emotionally and failed.

First, I thought it was something I did, or that I was the one to blame for the failure.

All my friends seemed so happy, and I didn’t think that I did ANYTHING WRONG.

However, as I soon would realize, I did one thing wrong, and that was like poison ivy to the relationship.

How to Attract a Man’s Attention

I don’t remember when it started, but I remember that when I turned 35, I wanted to understand one thing.

That one thing became a nagging question: How can I attract a man’s attention?

I was often lying in bed at 2 AM, staring at the roof in the bedroom. In the other bed, you would find him. I could hear him snore. Yet, he seemed emotionally distant to me. Even if he never had any trouble with the intimate parts of the relationship. We just couldn’t connect on a deep, emotional level.

What was on my mind could be summarized with the two words “What if…”

  • What if he became emotionally distant to me
  • What if he told me we should split up
  • What could I do to prevent it from happening again?

One day, I stopped wondering, and realised that I needed to stop saying “What if” all the time, and start looking for a solution.

So, after a lot of thinking about what if I couldn’t find it, and a lot of searching, a lot of reading books about the male psyche, I finally found a video, that explained something I had never thought about in a million years.

It was so easy that it almost made me feel insulted.

I wasn’t sure whether it would help me or NOT, but I decided to give it the benefit of the doubt, and it WORKED.

I was finally able to understand that how to attract a man, you need to make him feel needed.

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How Attraction Really Works: He Must Feel Like He Is Useful to You

You see, the problem with our modern society is that men do not think they can be useful to a woman. In the past, they were the hunters, the providers, the rock that the family was built. But today, things are different

Today, we don’t need a man in our life to provide for ourselves.

In some countries, a woman can go to a clinic, and become pregnant all by herself.

I know it might sound shocking to you, but there are countries where it is possible. They call it “feminism” and “female freedom”. I call it the destruction of the family, as well as traditional values. I do not consider myself primarily conservative, but I am not a man-hater either.

However, for women like you and me, who still want to go the old-fashioned route, we need to make him understand that we need him in his life.

What can you do about it?

How to Attract a Man Emotionally: Fulfilling His Desire to Be the Provider

To attract a man emotionally, you must fulfil his desire to be needed, and to feel like he is the provider.

If you don’t you will in best case be up at 2 AM, and think about what will happen to your relationship.

In worst case, you will end up like Darcy, heartbroken, abandoned by the man she though loved her, and with a strong feeling of bitterness and being betrayed.

I feel so lucky because I do not have to trust Lady Luck any longer. Not after watching that video. That’s simple, right?

However, then I took the action and made him realize how much needed he was in my life.

A man might like freedom, but I feel secure knowing that we are two adults who can support each other emotionally.

So, now I am asking you this very simple question:

Would you like to watch the same video, and make the man you love:

  • Feel needed for your emotional support
  • Think that he can still be of value to you and the family more than a stallion and more like a provider
  • Connect with you on an intimate, emotional, and mental level that is mind-boggling

If you want that, you should watch this video, where James Bauer explains everything to you.

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Will You Understand How to Attract a Man Emotionally After Watching This Video?

It is the same video that I watched, and the one who made my husband re-connect with me emotionally.

I am a lucky woman these days, and you can be it too, if you just promise me two things:

  1. If you find it useful, please do not second-guess yourself over the price. Just ask yourself how much the destruction of your marriage would cost you, both emotionally and financially.
  2. If you know another woman who would benefit from this information, I would love it if you would share it with her. I want to help as many women as possible, but unfortunately, I do not have a lot of money that men behind big desks wish to, to allow me to share my message with the world. I can only rely on other women, just like you, to help me share it.

If you are NOT sure, whether it is for you, or not, I want to offer you a free report about male attraction triggers, that you can get here.

It is free, and you can share that one freely with as many women as possible too, if you think so.

Let us all share it in a sense of sisterhood, and compassion. The world needs more love, and compassion, not less.

Do you agree with me?

Here is the video that saved my relationship.

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I honestly hope that it will do the same thing with yours too.

Love,

Melanie

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